3 Ways to Tell When Your Kid is Ready to Learn About Guns

September 29, 2021

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Recently, I took my children to the range for the first time.  Fun was had by all.

There isn’t a “magic age” for children to go to the range.  They have to be tall enough to see over the table in the booth, and the parent has to determine if they are mature enough and focused enough to safely operate a firearm.

Here’s a parenting question that Dr. Spock somehow neglected: “How can I tell when my child is old enough to learn about guns?” There aren’t any cut-and-dried answers, because every child and every family is different. Some eight-year-olds can be trusted next to you in a duck blind—and some 18-year-olds can’t. However, there are three signs that your child is ready to get some hands-on experience with firearms and gun safety.

The first developmental milestone to look for is the child’s capacity for empathy. Although empathy is a near-universal human trait, we aren’t born with it. Any parent can attest that very small children can be remarkably cruel—and that’s because learning that other people are independent entities with their own feelings and inner landscape doesn’t happen right away. Look for signs that your child understands when he or she has hurt someone’s feelings, and makes an effort to apologize (and this is crucial) without being made to do so by you or another authority figure.


Everybody either knows (or was) the kid who tied a towel around his neck and took a leap off the bed trying to fly. That’s because it’s normal for small children to confuse reality with fiction in their attempts to reconcile cartoon physics with real-world physics in kinetic experiments that often result in plaster casts and missing out on a summer of swimming. In cartoons, Daffy Duck can shoot Elmer Fudd, and Fudd will be right back at his antics in the next reel…so it’s crucial that your child understands that that’s not how it works in the real world. You’re looking for a kid who no longer talks to an invisible friend; a kid who points out things she knows aren’t true on TV; a kid who claims to still believe in Santa (duh, more gifts!), but doesn’t seem particularly concerned about the Elf on the Shelf and what that creepy little bugger might be reporting back to old St. Nick.


This last—and most important—milestone can’t come until your child masters the first two…and the age at which it comes is different for every child. Perhaps the best indicator that your child is ready to learn about guns is when you feel comfortable leaving him or her in charge of a pet. What you’re looking for is a kid who feeds, walks, cleans the cage or litter box—without you needing to force or constantly remind them to do so. It means they understand that that turtle or budgie is a living being that requires their consistent care and attention.

When your child has consistently displayed empathy, the ability to distinguish reality from make-believe, and the responsibility required to keep a living being healthy, that’s when you’ll know that your child is ready to begin learning about gun safety and the fundamentals of shooting.

In closing, SAFETY is the most important element.  Have fun with it.  When I teach people how to shoot, I do not allow (ADULTS AND CHILDREN) holding a firearm and holding a cell phone at the same time. If someone wants to post on social media, they can have another person take photos of videos. Phones are distracting.